Investing time in your friendships is an investment in yourself!
By Cecily Knobler | Contributor
With girlfriends, discussing feelings is completely acceptable. They comprehend that after a taxing week, we might just need a break, free from any kind of drama or responsibilities. Whether we’re chatting about our spouses, sharing highlights of our week, or critiquing the latest reality television, our friends provide the kind of support that recharges us, helping us rediscover our true selves. Even if they jokingly call us a “hot mess,” it comes from a place of love, having gone through similar experiences themselves.
The beauty of a Girls Night Out lies in the connections we reinforce. We get to embrace our support system without any serious obligations, allowing us to express various sides of ourselves, whether that’s the playful, annoyed, or stress-free version. Stilettos or sneakers, our girlfriends accept us without any expectations to be anyone other than who we truly wish to be.
How many therapists manage to make us laugh? And how often can we sip wine while unpacking everything on our minds? With our closest friends, any topic is fair game. Sure, if someone is overly obsessed with *The Bachelor*, a little tough love might be necessary. But honestly, they’re probably just as hooked!
So shake off the stress! Reach out to those friends who lift you up and plan a reunion! Make a reservation, enjoy a martini, indulge in an extra slice of cake, treat yourself to a spa day, experience a delightfully cheesy romantic movie, or shop for a new pair of jeans. Remember, you are not merely a wife, mother, daughter, boss, or employee; you are also a cherished friend to someone who truly understands you and is likely in need of a fun night out too!
Local Moms Reflect on the Value of Their Friendships
L to R: Kim Costigan, Leslie Leach, and Jane Ito
“My friendships truly hold my life together. They are by my side through thick and thin—celebrating achievements, grieving losses, swapping parenting tips, and just supporting me during all the highs and lows life brings. It would be so much harder and less enjoyable without them.” – Jane Ito
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L to R: Cindy Garrison, Kelly Flynn, Debbie Gillespie, Teresa Niermeyer, and Julie Tadlock
“Girlfriends are like wild cards—always ready to support you! The Mahj Mavens have been playing together for five years, helping each other navigate through life’s ups and downs.” – Teresa Niermeyer
L to R: Leslie Gilvar, Susie Learmont, Amy Depner, Sue Benton, and Traci Koen
“These are friends I formed bonds with when my oldest started kindergarten. We just sent them off to their first year of college and they’ve been my support network for over 13 years. We’ve shared countless tears, laughter, celebrations, and moments of reflection. They are my lifeline to sanity!” – Susie Learmont
Top Row: Carol Margolis, Lisa Crawford, Rachel Pearlman, and Stefanie Toppel
“My girlfriends are essential because they truly understand me, and they aid me in overcoming challenges while also celebrating our victories!” – Carol Margolis
Jo-el Howell, Emily Payne
Middle Row: Tracey Hill, Kelly Dossman, Beth Thompson
Bottom Row: Chris Russo Not pictured: Deborah Stowe
“Introducing the Bloody Mary Friday Group! These Moms meet up every Friday for lunch in search of the ultimate Bloody Mary. Our connection is unique; we uplift each other and ourselves, enriching our lives by dedicating time to bond with strong, positive, and loving pals. We enjoy talking, laughing, crying, and seeking guidance—it’s great therapy for the soul!” – Beth Thompson
Third Row: Linda McCullough,
Janey Fullington, Andrea Wood,
Second Row: Susan Cure, Laurie Goyan, Wendi Hart
First Row: Jen Boleman, Ann Myer, Lori Collyar
“True friends are there to support you through life’s challenges, along with enjoying margaritas and celebrating birthdays.”
– Ann Myer
