Seventeen-year-old Lindsay Steudtner exemplifies the essence of loyalty and friendship.
by Karyn Brodsky | Staff Writer
Often, when people think about individuals with disabilities, they concentrate on their limitations rather than their abilities. However, a college-bound student from Plano highlights the strengths of her “differently-abled” friend, showcasing a decade of steadfast friendship.
Lindsay Steudtner, a graduate of Plano West High School and an incoming freshman at the University of Arkansas, first met Sydney Pizette in third grade. Although they had different teachers in fourth grade, that did not hinder their bond. “Every morning, Sydney would greet me with a wave before class,” Steudtner recalls. Over time, their friendship deepened, and by the end-of-year festivities in fifth grade, their mothers were acquainted. It wasn’t long before they started making plans together. “At that age, I didn’t fully grasp Sydney’s disability,” Steudtner reflects, “but I never judged her. I think that’s why she felt comfortable coming to talk to me.”
As they transitioned to middle school, Steudtner gained a deeper understanding of Sydney and, in the process, learned about her own growth as well. “I became more aware of Sydney’s disability, and I developed patience,” she notes. Acknowledging that children with special needs might process things differently, Steudtner emphasizes, “I realized the importance of being patient to help [her] better understand.”
Their relationship flourished in high school, where Steudtner attended Sydney’s dance performances and family gatherings, accompanied her on shopping trips, and celebrated her birthday by decorating her locker. Eager to support Sydney in school, she volunteered as a Peer Assistant and specifically requested to work with Sydney’s class. Lindsay became involved with the local chapter of Best Buddies, which pairs general education students with those in special education. This organization organizes unique events and expects a weekly check-in and bi-monthly outings. Steudtner’s contributions have exceeded these basic requirements, as noted by Samantha Moran, Best Buddies Texas Program Manager, highlighting how “a genuine friendship has flourished.”
Lindsay has nurtured a special bond with Sydney. “I know what Sydney likes to order when we eat out, her favorite songs, and that she shares stories about me with everyone,” Steudtner says proudly. “Whenever we hang out, people are aware of who I am, even if I don’t know them.” Sydney’s affection for Lindsay is evident as well: “I love Lindsay! I’ll miss her so much. I adore how she picks me up for outings, and we have sleepovers. She takes me to Fat Straws and to the movies. She’s kind, pretty, and my best buddy. She’s my friend and brings me joy.”
According to Sydney’s mother, Karen Pizette, her daughter refers to Lindsay as her best friend, and the entire family holds her in high regard. “Lindsay has been an amazing friend to Sydney. We feel incredibly fortunate,” she shares. Many cherished family moments feature Steudtner, including a tradition of taking a photo together every 4th of July. Pizette adds, “Forming close friendships can be hard for those with disabilities. It takes extraordinary individuals like Lindsay, who communicates from the heart. She truly possesses a special gift.”
As Steudtner looks forward to college life, balancing studies and social engagements, she is determined to keep Sydney involved in her journey. Plans are already in motion for the Pizette family to visit, allowing Sydney to see Lindsay’s dorm, experience the college atmosphere, and attend a football game. Karen admits that Lindsay’s transition to college is bittersweet for their family. “We’re thrilled for her, but we will miss her immensely. We know we’ll stay connected no matter what.”
Although Lindsay will be pursuing a major in Interior Design, she intends to remain active in Best Buddies. “Sydney, along with all my friends in special education, has become an integral part of my life,” Steudtner explains. “Their smiles brighten my day. I’d love to continue working with them during my time in college.”
For her heartfelt dedication to supporting individuals with disabilities and her unwavering friendship, Themerrythought honors Lindsay Steudtner with the Good Kids Award, along with a $250 scholarship.
Note: Best Buddies operates globally, with chapters in all 50 states and more than 50 countries. Founded in 1989 by Anthony Kennedy Shriver to address the need for “true, authentic friends” for individuals with disabilities, it provides an unparalleled environment for friendships to flourish. To learn more, visit bestbuddiestexas.org.
The Good Kid Award recognizes a student aged 12 to 21 who exemplifies outstanding character, courage, and personal values, inspiring others without seeking recognition. Recipients of this honor receive a Certificate of Achievement and a $250 scholarship for their commitment to community service, individuals, or organizations. If you would like to nominate a deserving student for this award, please visit www.Themerrythought.net or reach out via email to Tricia White, Managing Editor, at Trica@Themerrythought.net.
